The Grass is Always Greener...

Is it true that we always want what we can't have? Is the grass truly greener on the other side? This must be a twisted game that nature has planted within us, insatiable, never satisfied with the hand we are dealt. Girls who have straight hair spend a good chunk of change on perms from month to month. On the other hand, the girls who have curly hair spend sufficient amounts of effort and time into straightening it each morning. This theory has proved true in many instances in life. There are guys who spend every waking hour dreaming up the girl of their dreams and would do anything to have that companion to share life with. Then, on the other hand, there are the guys who have a perfect girl waiting at home for them while they are out at the bar wishing they had their single life back to the point that they might even step out for the night just to remember what it felt like. 

Doesn't it seem crazy as human beings that we are not ever satisfied with our lives no matter how satisfying they may be? We are all guilty of doing this, for every perfect relationship there exist a man finding something wrong with it and searching for a reason to put him out of his misery, I mean relationship. Don't get me wrong, girls are just as guilty of the same offense, even if we found the perfect man, we will complain and nag about every little thing until we eventually drive our loved one off a cliff! How unfair is this? To have what we have always desired just to learn that it is never enough? I would like to think that there has to be an end to all this madness. There must exist a point of satisfaction! At one point do we have to realize how good we have it and it's not until we have had bad experiences that make us really appreciate a good thing. Again, is that what these 'soul mate's' are called?!? 

If you are one of those guys out there at the bar right now, even at 6pm on a Thursday, maybe it's time to think twice about what you are leaving at home. Even if she hasn't shaved her legs and spent all evening eating a gallon of ice cream while you were out flirting with some cute blonde, you may want to reevaluate what it is that you really want in life? At the end of the day, we all want the same thing. So finish your drink, go home to your lovely lady and feed her the attention that she needs because she will probably love you unconditionally and could give you more than any young buck at the bar could provide or any Jack and Coke could supply.

Now ladies, go shave your legs and quite complaining. Boys will be boys, they are always going to want to watch football and play Call of Duty before they want to tell you that you look "so cute" in your new Bebe sweater and Mac lip gloss. Be thankful that you have a man that is willing to put up with all of your yuppie princess like behavior and start acting more appreciative. Have dinner for him when he gets out of a long day of work and make yourself presentable so he has something to look forward to coming home to. Stop the nagging and stop acting like such royalty, maybe then he won't fantasize about wanting to be single again. It's time to out smart mother nature and actually try harder than ever to hold onto a good thing when you got it!